Past years reflection

Over the past few years I have learned a valuable lesson: No matter what hurtful thing someone has done, no matter what they say to you to get you to attack them back; never say anything they can use against you.Never say anything that could in the slightest be taken as hurtful and spiteful even if you want to so bad. It never ends well and will only come back to hurt you too. Instead smile laugh, try to move on, and leave them with a one liner they cannot reply to ;) :P And also if they hurt you so much, you don't need to stay with them, it won't go anywhere and it will only provoke you more. Leave, move on. You can live happily without them.